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Need to be more likeable? Here are 5 simple things to do
Being likeable often works as an advantage in many situations. There are many experiences that prove that. No wonder some great authors, have written volumes upon volumes on how to be likeable.
Here are some of the simplest things you can do to instantly get the likes without stress.
1. Smile.
Most normal people are attracted to people who are happy. It is only natural. A smile is an outward demonstration of your happiness (even if you fake it, you still appear to be happy). and it spreads easily.
In a study conducted in Sweden, people had difficulty frowning when they looked at other subjects who were smiling, and their muscles twitched into smiles all on their own.
2. Pay attention
When you are talking to someone for the very first time, and you share the attention you give them with something or someone else you appear to them as a snub. So lose your phone, listing with your eyes, ears and mind. The mere appearance that you pay attention shows you respect the person trying to communicate with you. You’d sure get a like from that.
3. Remember people’s (nick)name
Remembering names is a proof that you paid attention to that person. It shows people that you remember them as individuals. It appeals to the narcissist inside. Dale Carnegie’s classic book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, reveals that this tried-and-true technique is sure to increase your fan base.
4. Practice good posture
Experts recommend standing and sitting up straight if you want to be like able. Bad posture sends a negative message. Avoid slouching. Slouching can make you look less professional and can possibly make you look less confident and enthusiastic.
5. Be real
People like to see character and authenticity, says Larry Kim, Founder and CTO, WordStream in his article on INC.com. He added that while classic business doctrine pushes the importance of an alpha male stance (shoulder back, chin up, strong handshake), it’s easy to go overboard and come off as fake.
Instead, try to be confident but respectful. Some cooperation experts suggest stepping toward a person and bending slightly forward when you’re introduced, in a gesture of a bow. These kinds of gestures can go a long way toward making people think more highly of you.
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