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Lady narrates how boyfriend of five years deflowered, infected her with HIV


Love, many say, makes us do crazy things. Some even say love is blind. There has been history of several people who died for love.

Even the Bible states that love covers a multitude of sins.

A South African lady simply identified as @Zandie_V on Twitter has shared a painful experience of how she got infected with the dreaded human immunodeficiency virus by a young man she fell in love with.

According to the netizen, she got to know later that the boyfriend of five years who lost her virginity to has children with three different women.

@Zandie_V disclosed that she found it shocking that the same man could father three kids with three different women.

She vowed that the unidentified man, who was six years older, was the only guy she ever had sex with after he deflowered her.

Worse still, she received another shocker when she fell sick in 2016.

When she was struggling to under the symptoms of the ailment, an aunt suggested she visit a dermatologist going by what the pale look of her skin.

After a careful examination of her sickly look, the dermatologist recommended that she undergo some tests including HIV and tuberculosis.

When the result returned, she almost died of shock. It was positive! She has been diagnosed with HIV.

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Armed with this new information, she challenged ‘the love of her life’ knowing he was the only person she slept with.

Long story short, @Zandie_V narrated how sad her life has become when he disclosed that every man now treats her like ‘poison’ because of the action of her last ex-boyfriend.

Read her thread:

“I am HIV positive!!!

“2010 I dated a guy 6 years older than me, it was a long distance relationship but I still trusted him. The guy was working and I was doing my matric when we met. He was the first guy I had sex with and I was this honest gf. Problem is I trust too much.

“I still do. I loved him with all my heart and he never gave me any reason not to trust him cz he would call, text or checkup on me everyday. We dated for 5 full years.

“After 3 years of our relationship, I then heard rumours about him having 3 kids with different mothersFlushed face. As trusting as I was, I never believed any of that until I saw pictures of them in his damn phone. I asked him about them.

“As expected he lied straight to my face and I then threatened to breakup with him. By then he didn’t have a choice but to tell me the whole story about the 3 kids. Yes we broke up after but I still went back to him cz at that time I thought my life was nothing without him.

“In 2016 I became sick just at the beginning of the year. My legs were swollen and I couldn’t walk. I went to different doctors but non of them new what was wrong with me. I drank both traditional and doctors medication but I still wasn’t getting better.

“One day, my aunt suggested that I should see a dermatologist. They ran some tests and gave me meds to reduce the pain. After a week my results came back. Guess what? I had TBPerson gesturing ok. I was then advised to also test for HIV. And the results came positiveThinking faceThinking face.

“As shocked as I was, i then called my then bf and told him about it. I expected him to support me, to get tested too cz he new how honest I was with him, He new that I only slept with himLoudly crying face. Anyway he did the opposite, he insulted me, accused me of sleeping around

“We then broke up. Few months later, he was hospitalized. He called and asked me to please visit him in hospital. I was angry with him, infact I hated him so I never visited him. Few weeks later he was back from hospital. We met and he apologized for blaming me for his actions

“Still I told him I was better off without him. Ever since then, my love life changed for the worst. I thought opening up to a new guy before we even start dating was gonna make things easier. No it didn’t for me cz most guys told me I am a poison and they can’t be with me.

“Some guys pretended to accept me and appreciate my honesty only for them to give me stories after getting what they actually came for, sex. I’ve tried many times finding a partner but i guess dating isn’t for all of us. It’s time I accept my fate now and focus on better things.

“Perhaps I wasn’t meant to find love. People ask me why don’t I have a child at this age, truth is, It takes 2 to make kids. Sometimes I wanna give up on life in general but I still remind myself that I have a family that loves and care for meRed heart

“I’m done trying to find happiness in a man’s heartLoudly crying faceLoudly crying face

This is my life!!!”