Nigerian fashion blogger, Deola Bamigboye, has said men who claim to be fervent and spirit-filled Christians are the worst kind of men to be in a relationship with.
She took to her Twitter handle to share a series of tweets why ladies will be much better with a kind hearted person and not a Church boy.
The blogger described the spirit-filled men as pretenders who
“are obsessed with their Christian church image, that no real Christ-like character has been formed in them.”
Deola’s outburst about Church boys was prompted by a tweet by Nigerian Actor Tomiwa Immanuel, who wrote on his Twitter page:
“Your taste is trash. Your selection process is also trash. That’s why you keep meeting and getting involved with all these trash men.
“Get some Jesus-wisdom. Get you that Holy Spirit-filter. You’ll see clearly and you’ll choose well.”
She quoted Tomiwa’s tweet and wrote:
“I will maintain this stance till the day I die, church boys are the worst kind of men to be with. Spirit filled that will drain your own spirit. They’ll guilt trip you with the Bible and be doing “love is patient, love is kind’
“You’ll be much better with a kind hearted person. More often than not, these “spirit-filled” guys are pretentious and they don’t even know it. They are obsessed with their Christian church image, that no real Christ-like character has been formed in them
“They walk the walk and talk the talk, so they’ll actually pass your small tests and observations
“You’ll meet a guy that checks all your Christian sister boxes but you just can’t shake that uneasiness you feel about him, you’ll be wondering ‘God why won’t you let me do this?’ That’s God telling you that he’s a scam dear
“I stopped talking to a guy randomly, I basically ghosted because I didn’t have any tangible reason to cut him off. It just didn’t feel right, my spirit was beyond troubled but he was a nice guy and I liked him.
“In hindsight, thank God I ghosted, the girl who ended up with him is still recovering physically and mentally.
“What does spirit-filled even mean? And why have I dragged myself into this on a Monday morning?
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See the tweet:
I will maintain this stance till the day I die, church boys are the worst kind of men to be with. Spirit filled that will drain your own spirit. They’ll guilt trip you with the Bible and be doing “love is patient, love is kind” https://t.co/aWJSJvjdZT
— Deola Bee (@thedeolabee) March 25, 2019
