Big Brother Naija star and entrepreneur, Anita Akide, popularly known as Tacha, has stirred up conversation with her unconventional views on modern dating.
In a recent appearance on The Podcast Network on YouTube, the reality star shared her thoughts on relationships, advising young women to embrace the idea of dating multiple people before settling down.
When asked for her dating strategy for young women, Tacha was straightforward and unapologetic.
“You need three other boyfriends in your life… I’m not saying to sleep with all the boyfriends. But at least… You just never really know,” she said, encouraging women to explore different connections and take their time before committing to one person.
Tacha further elaborated on her philosophy, stressing the importance of remaining single until marriage and not letting societal expectations or existing relationships dictate decisions.
“Every girl should be single till they’re actually married… Don’t let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your husband,” she advised, emphasizing that women should not rush into anything out of pressure or convenience.
She acknowledged the different societal expectations that often come with being a woman, highlighting the need for women to navigate relationships strategically.
“The kind of grace that the guys have is not the same kind of grace that we have. So we need to be able to move differently,” Tacha said, suggesting that women should approach dating with more caution and awareness of societal dynamics.
Tacha’s comments have sparked a wider conversation about the challenges of modern dating and relationships, particularly in the context of societal norms. While some fans may agree with her take on dating multiple people, others are questioning whether this approach aligns with traditional values of commitment. Nonetheless, Tacha’s unfiltered advice continues to resonate with those who believe in taking a more empowered, thoughtful approach to love and relationships.
Through her candid reflections, Tacha has encouraged women to make their own decisions about love and dating, emphasizing the importance of personal choice and timing over societal pressures. “Take your time, explore, and don’t let anyone rush you,” she added.
