A South African lady, identified as Zinhle, has stated that if as a man you haven’t made your woman reach orgasm then you are not a man.

According to her, it’s not fair that a man should only release and be content.

In her opinion, women can also solve the problems of not being satisfied by helping themselves to masturbate.

She said that men should not chase the number of rounds adding that the quality of sex is key.

She wrote,

“The problem with men is that they count sex rounds based on them coming not on mutual come. If I didn’t have an orgasm, we can’t calculate that as a round. Whose round is it? Yours alone? If you’ve never made a woman orgasm, you’ve never finished a round in your life.

“But we women can solve this. We just need to learn how to pleasure ourselves abi. When he has come and he is laying on the bed panting, just start touching yourself right in front of him until you orgasm.

“If that won’t make him feel guilty then I don’t know what will.”

Her assertions have however, sparked a debate on Twitter. Some said that communication is key adding that the pair should figure out which positions take them the longest to come.

Some opined that some women were so lazy in bed hence leads to them not releasing fast.

See some comments:

I always say its not about how many rounds you can make its about how you can make your woman reach orgasm/climax third and fourth round are corrections. real men can satisfy their woman with 1st & 2nd round qha.

— Ndinephupha (@amphendule) May 21, 2018

?…well that’s humbling. pic.twitter.com/IaKv7HK7eb

— T.D Makinya ?? ?? (@Taffmak) May 20, 2018

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— Dumakude Makhanyakude (@BaxekeN) May 21, 2018

The mistake we make as amajida is that we make it all about us forgetting that making sure that she’s happy equates to us getting more. I have female friends & abafazi baya khuluma, I’ll hear about someone’s weak performance without even asking. You DON’T wanna be that guy.

— Risenga Baloyi (@RisengaBaloyi) May 21, 2018

Females should orgasm at every vaginal penetration and most women don’t because they have female erectile disfunction, Check out Dr Amun Neb and Dr Amsu Anpu to find out more about this topic.

— Sitsha’s Bakery (@SitshasBakery) May 21, 2018

You knw I’m still confused how women organism looks like or what happen honestly can I be balanced here .. nna gakitse

— Katlego kenneth molelekwa (@Katli_molelekwa) May 21, 2018

1) She moans your name over amd over again, this is how you know you’re doing something right.
2) She moans louder but stops making sense, like she’s speaking in tongues.
3) Her legs start to shake…JACKPOT!
4)[Bonus]
Now she makes promises and starts crying tears of joy pic.twitter.com/k32dEI4IaC

— Lifa (@MLifaro) May 21, 2018

No no the problem is that woman have a tendency of coming late everywhere! pic.twitter.com/mGKWI8Fvzp

— senzeka ngwenya (@senzeka_ngwenya) May 21, 2018

Tell your man where to touch u so that u can reach orgasm and also put your mind into sec during sec don’t think about money u won’t come

— el chapo (@SicellSicelo) May 21, 2018

I know where to touch,play n all that m talking about her man.If u know he doesn’t make u come tell him

— el chapo (@SicellSicelo) May 21, 2018

This is why communication is key! Me and my woman figuired out which positions take me the longest to come & luckily they happen to be her favs so we start with those positions & make sure she cums 1st then we flip to my favs and I cum. We always have great sex! ALWAYS!

— We Ain’t The Same Out Now (@RoyalSuaveSA) May 21, 2018

Oh and foreplay is amazing, we always go down on each other. I let her sit on my face while she goes down on me and I write her sweet love letters with my tongue all round her pussy! I’m excited just tweeting this, can’t wait till she gets back from work!!!

— We Ain’t The Same Out Now (@RoyalSuaveSA) May 21, 2018

While we’re on the subject: let’s discuss women who’re lazy in bed.
If you’re too lazy to do the bare minimum like going on top, you don’t deserve orgasms.
I once had this woman who made me do all the work, she got five orgasms (because that’s how I roll) but I left with a boner! pic.twitter.com/5jwV3sn46Y

— Lifa (@MLifaro) May 21, 2018

Look at the confidence of the men in the comments. Most don’t care or think they good. Cause obviously this topic if for women only and they can’t fathom that their partner is most likely faking their orgasms and they have never actually given a woman one.

— avo ?? (@ShanduPhindile) May 21, 2018

Not when most of our gehs here don’t have sex education, how do u expect them to come.. some even do it to satisfy the guy so as to get the favor they want.. as 4 me if my gal don’t come I don’t feel relaxed

— Chubbybenjamins (@chubbybenjamins) May 22, 2018