Some Nigerians on social media have lambasted an unidentified lady for appreciating Nigerian married men for supporting and creating opportunities for young girls through their friendship.
The unidentified lady came under attack after a private mail she sent to popular relationship expert, Adejoro Olumofin was posted on Joro’s Instagram page.
She said when government and family abandoned them, married men, through their relationships with young girls have been supportive and paying their bills.
In the mail the lady said:
“I want to thank Nigeria married men for creating opportunities for young girls like me. We are grateful. When government and family abandoned us married men support. Ur there for us. Some will insult. It’s in our culture to have more relationships. Married men are paying for all sort of our friendship. We appreciate the payment.”
The post, which apparently angered some Nigerians, has elicited a lot of reactions from IG users who have camped in the comment section of Joro’s post to hurl insults on the anonymous lady.
See the IG post:
See the reactions:
dukeofkalabari:
Pls if you want to or have been having affair with a married man it’s your business but when your husband do it with does small girls or gives you STI and you complain as a married woman Na there thunder go fire you, if I write out all the swear that will happen to you then if you complain you might as well kick the bucket ??….so enjoy urs now and let another lady enjoy your husband then.
donjay_rogo:
What goes around will surely come around, your husband go carry HIV/AIDS come give you for house #Amen
daddys_koko:
Everyone has got what to be thankful for. Many can’t cos karma and household things won’t even let them hit a loudpocket Mm…. you see this life don’t criticise in public what you ask for in secret cos that alone is a spear on another dimension. Even robbers are grateful for smooth operations…… the list is endless .
iambasunma:
U are embarrassing the whole thing called women… By the way you are welcome..
anita.jonathan:
My dear poster, you need Christ
qvng_evon:
Wrong is wrong ur life ur choice nobody is perfect but sleeping with a married man my dear with such confidence hmm I wonder if u ve any fear of God or conscience left in u.
veejaysero:
@_erine_ene_ as a lady I would have thot you too wld support the female gender by raining curses on husbands who cheat….but alas u are attacking those who probably have felt the pains of cheating husbands aided by their side chicks. Am a husband and I know better to stay clear of temptation. Let’s build a society where fidelity to our spouses is upheld in high esteem.
chick.son_ofhost:
Sweetie let the Mercy of God keep you and the Grace of God find you, so your eyes shall be open to your own gifts for we all have one and have been given one from God! Let he who has not sin keep casting stones, for he didn’t come for those who are saved either by there own ways or knowledge, but for everyone one who is still lost and blind. We’ve all come short of His Glory and all need redemption. ??
mizh_preshy:
What if these married men just decide to stick to their wives. Hwfr ur hustle ?? Same way ur dad is taking care of another young gal like u… ?
mhiz_fallon:
While you enjoy it,get ready for your husband to also help out girls like you in the future. Karma spares no one
examinationconsult:
I am in shock! What laziness has caused so many people.. funny enough you will still cheat as a married woman because of money.. n trust there are always financial difficulties sometimes..
solomongrace2:
Pathetic, pls study hard either at school or learn a skill.After a while your feminine wiles and looks will be gone and you would have nothing to your name to sustain you.
susan_jonez:
This is loud oooo…..hmmmm..maybe married men shld just love there wife or wives at least married them like in d old days Dan having concubines and be on their lane…if not who is this poster to come and give testimony ehen….I blame it on men …if customers no dey.. How dem go sell market…. Poster weldone oo.. We have heard ur testimony (life nah turn by turn)
igwilochimdi:
80% of big girls you see around are on this… that she is saying it out doesn’t mean those abusing her are saint. But my dear Thank the Lord who give you life not men who give you change in exchange of your body.
ghee_couture:
Goat..one day another girl would write this cuz of ur husband’s support…ur hubby would use ur business/car money on another lady.
ni_ifemi:
Lowkey. People applauded her until they saw nasty comments from others. People are different. Before judging,see things from her own perspective. Most married men have been frustrated by their wives and seek comfort in the arms of single girls . the same goes for some married women. Life is too short to die wandering. Married people have to make it up to their spouses so as not to fall prey. Some single ladies that date married men are smart ,intelligent and have the spirit of entrepreneurship… But sadly only Tony elumelu foundation and married men support their dreams…so I support wealth creation and economic growth
wilson_j.a.d.e:
Always wondered why married men are always after young girls. I have had like 5 of them on top of my matter. I politely declined them always made sure I give them utmost respect by calling them “sir”. Surprisingly,they all have beautiful wives and their excuse is always that they are not always sexually satisfied at home so they always find solace outside marriage. Always wondered what their wives are doing tho. What exactly is your duty if not to satisfy your husband sexually? Already learnt something which is, if I get married , I’ll make sure I never starve my husband with sex,ill fuck him till he gets irritated by other women vagina.
