Nigerians were caught off guard on Monday following a viral post on X (formerly Twitter) that offered a critical take on the union between Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo’s daughter, Priscilla Ojo, and Tanzanian singer Juma Jux.
While social media continues to buzz with stunning photos and videos from the glamorous event, a feminist commentator took a more reflective approach, using the occasion to advise young women on relationship choices.
In her post, she questioned the dynamics of the couple’s relationship, particularly their 10-year age difference and the speed of their engagement.
According to her, she would not advise a 24-year-old woman to marry a 34-year-old man she has known for less than a year. She also raised concerns about the groom’s close association with Tanzanian artist Diamond Platnumz, who served as best man.
“I don’t like seeing a 24-year-old woman marrying a 34-year-old man she met less than a year ago, whose best mate is Diamond. I wish Priscy well, and I’m not saying this to throw negativity her way. I’m saying this for the record — for the young women who think of this as aspirational. Relocating to a whole new country at 24 with a man you’ve known for a year, who is a decade older than you is risky for most young women,” she stated.
Despite her reservations, the poster clarified that her message was not intended to attack the newlyweds. Instead, she cautioned women against idolizing celebrity marriages without context.
“Their case might be different and he may be a good human & good partner, she’s also a celebrity etc.. so this is not me saying that their union will be bad or anything like that. My point is not even really about them. I’m saying don’t use them as a premise, don’t idealize them,” she wrote.
She concluded with well-wishes for the couple while encouraging people to enjoy the festivities without losing perspective. “Glamour is fun, huge weddings are entertaining, so wish them well, enjoy the festivities and celebrations, but don’t get carried away. Wishing her the best! I hope things work out and she remains happy.”
The post has since sparked conversations across social media, with users debating age gaps, relationship timelines, and the influence of celebrity culture on young people.
