It is sad but it must be said that many men especially those between their late 20s and the late 30s, cannot do what is expected of them as men in “the other room”.

Sex is a part of our human experience and in today’s world it has become a very big issue, leading to the dissolution of many homes.

Many cases of infidelity experienced in Nigeria and around the world today are caused by sex related issues.

For many men within the Lagos metropolis sexual performance is fast becoming a serious issue and study has shown why many men cannot live up to expectations when it comes to “bedmatics”.

Below are four major reasons why many good looking Lagos guys end up failures when it come to performance in the bedroom.

1. Little or no sleep:  For many men within Lagos, sleeping has become a luxury they cannot afford if they would make ends meet for themselves and their families. Hence, because the body has little or no proper sleep, it gets worn and cannot react as it should when it is time for the romantic dance.
2. No exercise: Exercising goes a very long way in aiding the processes our bodies have to undergo. The importance of exercise has been hammered upon for too long, but for many men in Lagos, there is not time for exercising, not when there is a 5am bus to catch and a 4hour traffic on the way back from work.
3. Poor nutrition: The truth is that many within Lagos both men and women get to eat, but not many eat that which is really healthy. Poor nutrition is one very big reason why many men do not get to perform satisfactorily with their partners.  The things we eat actually have great impact on how our bodies operate, there are certain highly nutritious meals that keeps our bodies in shape and prepared for the right sexual experience.
4. Drugs and beverages: To keep up with the pace of the metropolis that never sleeps, most Lagos men indulge themselves. Some use all types of drugs to ensure that they work at optimal level, for others an abusive use of certain beverages is their hope of scaling through the hurdles of the day. Most of the drugs taken and beverages used, often have a negative impact on the health of those who use them. One of the negative impacts of the “stimulants” which many men in Lagos use, is  a shabby performance in bed. Some are lucky to notice this very early and they get to quit in time to save themselves. However, some people are not always that lucky, hence they stand the great chance of not being able to get their bodies to perfect working conditions.

It is hypocritical to look at sex as something that needs not be talked about only within the four walls of our inner chambers. Sexual issues have become very global issues that if they are not well handled, will not only see to the destruction of homes, but will have a very terrible effect on the nation.

Cases of marital infidelity are stacked in various courts across the country, and most of the cases stem from the fact that one party is not getting the right sex.

Most times it is the men that tend to be found wanting, hence leaving room for many ladies to go outside their homes and neglect their deep relationships for mere flings.