A Southern African writer, Umm Eesah, has revealed that she broke up with the man she was engaged to because he will not let her pay for anything.
Eesah who took to her Twitter handle to make the disclosure said the man might one day get to tell her that he owes her nothing or probably tell her she owes him.
She said to some people it might be a dream come true, but to her, a man who doesn’t allow you pay for anything whenever you go out is exercising control.
She wrote,
“He bought me a new phone and sim card. It would be best if we were on the same network for free minutes he said. I saw that he just didn’t want others to have my number and also he’d have access to my itemized bill.
Then he would hint that we should go to Mac. He knows a lady who can sort me out. He’d like me to wear makeup all the time. You know, the business was picking up and we had to appear a certain way. I’m a jeans and T kinda girl. He met me as such.
Everytime I’d say no, he’d buy me things. I don’t want to grow my hair, he got expensive flat irons. I don’t like heels, he showed up with an Aldo box. . . It never stopped.
For some reason this man thought that by putting a ring on my finger he could now shape me into a mould of his own design. I saw through it all. I’m really thankful that I did or who knows how my life would be today.”
Takes a lot of self-awareness to know that this isn’t for you & walk away. Many will think you are mad but you know what you are doing. https://t.co/YCfryv2xir
— Mark Amaza (@amasonic) April 11, 2018
