Nigerian dancer, choreographer and fitness coach, Kafayat Shafau aka Kaffy has spoken on her broken marriage, saying that divorce was to see that they both grow.
The mother of two made the statement in a snippet from her new podcast and shared it with her fans and followers in an Instagram video on Monday night.
She said, “Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them. And mine didn’t really work out that way.
“Rather than looking at somebody as the problem, sometimes you could be the problem of that person.
“Being an enabler of someone’s not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you’re not supposed to be in that space.
“So there was a lot to learn and there’s still a lot more to learn.
In the video caption, she said; “Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be
Kaffy further added, “Some people make it back, some don’t . What is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love!”
Kaffy was married to Joseph Ameh, the music director and former drummer for Nigerian duo P-Square and they have two children together.