A Nigerian cleric and founder of Omega Power Ministries, Chibuzor Gift Chinyere, has issued an apology following widespread criticism triggered by a viral video in which he attempted to find a wife for an autistic man under his care.
The video, which was posted on Chinyere’s Facebook page on Friday, drew sharp reactions online, with many condemning the approach as inappropriate and disrespectful to women.
In the clip, the pastor proposed offering incentives such as accommodation, a salary, and additional benefits to any woman willing to marry the man.
Amid the backlash, Chinyere publicly apologised on Saturday, stating: “I want to apologise to all the ladies who watched the video. I can never degrade any woman… if my comments were seen as degrading, I apologise openly. I am very, very sorry.”
Providing context for his actions, the cleric explained that his decision stemmed from concern for the young man, who has special needs and was reportedly abandoned during childhood.
According to him, the man requires constant assistance with daily activities, including feeding, bathing, and general care.
Chinyere further disclosed that the individual had previously been taken by police to a care facility described as a motherly home but was rejected because of his condition.
As a result, the responsibility for his care fell to the ministry.
“I have more than 500 children who have been left at my gate over the years. Some have disabilities, including autism. I cannot abandon them, and this young man is no exception.” ,” he said.
The pastor noted that earlier efforts to hire caregivers proved unsuccessful, as those employed were unable to cope with the demands of the man’s condition. This challenge, he said, prompted him to explore alternative solutions.
“I was trying to find a sustainable solution to ensure he is cared for properly, The idea of seeking a partner was intended to provide companionship and support, not to degrade women. I never intended it to be interpreted that way,” ,” he said.
Describing the complexity of the man’s condition, Chinyere said he is unable to carry out basic personal tasks independently. “He cannot perform basic tasks on his own. He cannot brush his teeth, bathe, or feed himself. He does not speak and does not understand instructions. I am always concerned about his safety and wellbeing,” he said.
He also pointed to the support systems provided through his ministry, which include access to free education, healthcare, and accommodation for children with special needs.
“This young man, like the others, has access to education, medical care, and a caregiver. The intention was always to help him have a better life,” he said.
While acknowledging that the public nature of the post may have led to misunderstanding, Chinyere maintained that it was intended to attract individuals willing to offer long-term support. “Making it public was the best way for people to understand the situation and offer help,” he said.
He added that although some individuals have expressed willingness to assist, any arrangement must prioritise the man’s safety and overall wellbeing. “I am trying to find a companion or caregiver who will accommodate him fully, but it must be done responsibly,” he said.
Reiterating his regret, the pastor emphasised that his intentions were rooted in compassion rather than disrespect: “I am truly sorry if my posts offended anyone. My goal is always to care for those who cannot care for themselves.”
