Toni Payne has said that her ex-husband, singer 9ice, is the only man that has ever broken her heart.

Sharing on social media, Toni Payne said that despite the heartbreak, she got an amazing son out of it.

“I’ve only had my heart broken only once… nothing to tell really cos I got a wonderful & amazing son out of it and I’d get my heart broken a million times just for him. My disappointment was a blessing in disguise.

“I’m a lover and an avid communicator. I don’t break hearts, they break themselves.

“Well, no one ever prays to be heartbroken but I believe everything worked out for the best. We were not designed for each other and it took maturing and growth to figure that out. No one that is for you will ever put you through what I went through

“There would be less heartbreak if people are just honest with themselves and each other. That thing you are trying to avoid by lying is what usually hurts most. Deception is a hard pill to swallow, especially if you didn’t expect it. Honesty through it all, softens the blow,” she said.