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6 ways to make your woman feel loved


Every day I wake up, there is almost always something about how a woman can keep her man, talks surrounding what a man wants and how you, as a woman, should practically lose yourself just so you can always be there for your man.

Well, who said women don’t deserve same treatment, abi we be wood?

I’ve seen videos of women who confront their partner’s alleged side chick only for people to call them out, blaming them for their ‘inability to keep their man.’

I shake my head!

I was surfing the net a few days ago and saw a post by a repentant side chick who kept going on and on about what men want, in all of her talk, what struck me was the part where she said a man can leave his partner who gives 90% of what he wants for a side chick who only gives the 10% he lacks at home, I choke o.


Anyways, I think it’s time for men to pay attention to their women, as the Yoruba’s will say, ‘ka fi owo we owo l’owo f’in mo’ -don’t ask me for interpretation o-

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Follow me as we look at six ways you can make your woman feel loved:

Learn her love language:
Everyone expresses affection differently. The official Five Love Languages, as first introduced by Gary Chapman, are gifts, words of affirmation, quality of time, acts of service, and physical touch. So imagine that you are someone who shows love through helping with small tasks when your partner actually craves a lot of physical touch, wouldn’t it be nice to address that?

Show interest in the things she likes:
Studies show that using encouraging words and asking your partner about the things they’re passionate about — as neutral as you might be about the topic yourself — makes people feel closer and is a key to successful marriages.

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Say a few creatively nice things to her every day:
All compliments are always welcome but challenge yourself to go beyond “you’re beautiful” or “you’re smart.” Think of how they inspire you to change for the better or how they look in a specific outfit. Do this and tell me how she won’t feel close to someone who so clearly and uniquely appreciates her?

Text less, call more:
On one hand, texting and messaging is great because it opens the door for contact where it didn’t exist before. On the other hand, it can also make you feel like you always have to talk, even when you don’t have much to say at the moment — not responding just feels rude. If you’re having a busy day at work, instead of texting, which will just stress you out, consider calling her when you get home instead. It’ll feel a lot more fulfilling and intimate, especially because you’ll have so much more to catch up on.

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Trip to your heart and wallet’s content:
It can be tough to swing a full weekend that involves air travel and hotels, but even just a trip to a town close by that you’ve never been to can feel like an escape, and that’s important. Walking aimlessly down the main street of a new place, taking a hike, or even just driving a few miles to try a new hole-in-the-wall restaurant — all these things will feel like you’ve actually allotted time to be together.

Reveal one new thing you each want to try out in bed:
It’s a no-brainer that fulfilling each other’s sexual fantasies is a bond-booster. If having the talk upfront feels too stilted or broad, you can take individual surveys, and share only the results of the things you both are open to trying and take it from there, directly to the bedroom.