Divorce tends to be the in thing these day, even as many marriages are breaking up.
Most marriages tend to pack up between the duration of 1 to 5 years, and below are 5 reasons why
1 – Adventure
After a few months into marriage, it is observed that many couples fail to continue their romantic adventures, all the things they were passionate about becomes relinquished to the background.
The crazy things they used to do are done away with and before one knows it, the spice is finished and the boredom strangulates the love they ones had.
2 – Peer pressure
For some couples, pressure from their peers cause them to take certain actions that might lead to the ruin of their marriage.
What friends and colleagues do in their various homes might work for them, but when one tries the methods in his/her own home, it might lead to total disaster.
3 – Lack of trust
This is one of the biggest factors that lead to the dissolution of marriages, many people believe they would build a certain level of trust once they are married, however, they get to find out that as the union progresses there are secrets they never knew which gets to unfold, and in that moment some doubts begin to creep in.
4 – Ego
Pride has been one great factor that has lead to the destruction of many marriages. Many go into marriage with their egos and the end thereof is destruction.
People must know that in love their is no pride, we must be able to stomach certain nonsense which our partners bring to the table, afterall love is suppose d to overlook multitude of sins.
5 – Money
Finance is a very big problem when it comes to marriage, financial dishonesty and mismanagement of funds, has led to the ruin of many marriages.
Husbands and wives are supposed to be honest to each other as regards what income is coming into the home, if any one breaks the chain, it could lead to annulment of marriage. It is said that if one cannot be faithful financially, then one cannot be faithful to his or her spouse.
