A Nigerian Catholic priest presently serving in Malawi, Fr Kelvin Ugwu says Annie, the embattled wife of music legend, 2Face Idibia, made a mistake by bringing her marital issues to social media.
Ugwu warned that nobody should see social media validation as a means of resolving conflict or running away from the problem.
WuzupNigeria had earlier reported how the actress has flayed her husband for sharing the same roof with his baby mama, Pero Adeniyi.
In a series of a since-deleted Insta Stories, the mother-of-two also called out her husband’s family for aiding 2Face’s alleged escapades with his ex.
Her outrage has triggered arguments between her and the brother in-law, Uduak on social media.
Reacting to the crisis rocking their marriage, the renowned Catholic Priest disclosed on his verified Facebook post that Annie should take the blame for escalating an issue meant to be handled privately.
The post partly read, “Annie and Tuface’s Marriage Before Social Media Court: Why is everyone talking about the marriage of Annie and Tuface? Why are some of their ugly stories trending? Why are people taking sides either for Annie or for Tuface?
“Simple. . . Someone decided to carry a private matter to social media as if part of the vows they took in church was to update social media people the stories coming out from their bedroom.
“Tuface met Annie when she was 15. Even before he shot the Africa Queen video in 2004, they were already dating. These two know themselves more than whatever anyone may want to analyze. They will still know how to sort their issues themselves.
“In life and in marriage, there are times when you will surely feel like shouting and screaming for all to hear. There are times you just wish to report everything to social media. . . But from experience, social media will increase the problem instead. People don’t really care. Even if they do, there is no how they will know the whole story between you both.
“In fact, there are those who are just waiting to use your story to catch cruise and get traffic. Some influencers who have never been on your shoes will paint you with a colour even Michaelangelo never knew existed.
“We can understand with Annie on what she is passing through, but at the end, you still need some level of discipline and emotional maturity to know the right place to take your problem to and be helped adequately. This is why we have trained counsellors, psychologists, lawyers or trusted friends”.
